Grandmother Power

 

Grandmother and Joe RoseA version of this post appeared in March. I am not one for giving excuses but…given my latest medical adventures I felt it was okay to revise the post slightly so that I could participate in Tara Mohr’s Grandmother Power Blogging Campaign.

I have had a lot of time to think lately. One of the things that I have been thinking about is how lucky I am to have been born in California in the 50′s. My life would have been so different if my grandmother didn’t have the courage to get into a boat in 1920 and sail from Madeira to New York and then cross the country by train to the Bay Area. Left a widow with four children in the middle of the Depression, she managed to help all of her children get a foothold in her new country. Because of her bold move I became the first woman in my family to receive a college education. Her grandchildren have gone on to become lawyers, judges, nurses, receive MBA’s from Ivy League schools and win Iron Man competitions. She would be proud.

As I continue to heal I cannot help but feel the presence of both my Grandmother and Mother. Both brave women. So, here is to all of our grandmothers, especially Augusta Veloza, who had the courage to get into that boat or wagon or train or bus or car and head into the unknown. Kiss your grandmother or your mother or any woman who has made a difference in your life today. Mwah!

 

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Toward Wellness: A Surrealist Welcome Home

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As my granddaughter presented these flowers to me she said ‘these are not purple’. It seemed the perfect, surrealist welcome home after everything that has happened in the past month. I had just spent 21 of the last 30 days in the hospital (coma, brain aneurism). Everything that I took for granted on March 24 was tossed into question on March 25.

And with the help of fine doctors, the best husband in the world and loving friends and family who keep the prayers (and delicious gingerbread) coming, I will survive. Do I hear a Gloria Gaynor tune coming on? And while her lyrics take on a slightly different meaning to me now than they did when I danced to them in the 80′s, I know that there are other GM’s who know what it means to survive. Dance on…

 

 

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Thank you, Augusta

Augusta, Joe Rose & me

Today is International Women’s Day. As I faced the blank page to begin a new post I thought about how lucky I am to have been born in California in the 50′s. My life would have been so different if my grandmother didn’t have the courage to get into a boat in 1920 and sail from Madeira to New York and then cross the country by train to the Bay Area. Left a widow with four children in the middle of the Depression, she managed to help all of her children get a foothold in her new country. Because of her bold move I became the first woman in my family to receive a college education. Her grandchildren have gone on to become lawyers, judges, nurses, receive MBA’s from Ivy League schools and win Iron Man competitions. She would be proud.

So, here is to all of our grandmothers, especially Augusta Veloza, who had the courage to get in a boat or wagon or train or bus or car and head into the unknown. Kiss your grandmother or your mother or any woman who has made a difference in your life today. Mwah!

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On the Road: Big Sur Sojourn

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I know when I am approaching a crossroads in my life because I unexpectedly plan a trip to Big Sur. Why Big Sur? It may sound very ‘California Speak’ to describe Big Sur as a spiritual site, but it is. It possesses a mystical convergence of giant redwoods, rivers, beach, natural springs, waterfalls and ocean.

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This is where I go to to unwind. A quick excursion is sometimes all I need. On the road at 8 a.m., sitting at ‘my table’ on the front patio of Nepenthe’s sipping a cocktail by 11:30, eating an Ambrosia burger by noon, browsing the Phoenix shop at 2, sipping an espresso and knitting on the deck of Cafe Kevah at 4, departing at 5, home by 8. Even with all the driving I come home feeling relaxed and ready to face my next challenge. Continue reading

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San Francisco Horses at Play

the urbane grandmotherGirls fall into two camps: horse-obsessed or horse-clueless. I fall into the latter category. I wouldn’t know an Appaloosa from a Palomino if my life depended on it – something to do with spots, right? By some fluke of the universe I have a granddaughter who is possessed by the four-legged beasts. At last inventory she counted 30 plastic horses. Not to mention their equine accoutrements. There are saddles and brushes and stables and barns and fences. There are cases to carry them in and beds with blankets to tuck them into for a good night’s rest. Some have mane that needs to be washed and braided. At least they don’t eat much. Continue reading

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Chocolate

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Dear Reader: I am re-posting this piece because, well, this is chocolate’s week, right? In addition to being an Urbane Grandmother, I ‘m a chocolate educator so how could I resist? Happy Valentine’s Day!

Alas, pity the poor chocolate-loving grandparent! What are we to do when our children insist that our grandchildren must not eat sweets – specifically chocolate? Their good health is of paramount importance and their parent’s wishes must be respected. But, major health issues aside, we must reason for the importance of a bit of chocolate from time to time. A little something-something to soften the impact of life’s rocky road, as it were. And for the importance of including chocolate for children in the celebrations of our lives. Continue reading

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Getting Ready for Valentine’s Day, San Francisco Style

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It’s time to get ready for Valentine’s Day next week and Upper Polk Street in Russian Hill is the perfect neighborhood to start.

gioia pizzeria the urbane grandmotherBegin the day at Gioia Pizzeria. This is a pizza place that even a grandparent can love. No large cheesy rodents or bouncy rooms. Just tasty pizza (whole or by the slice), salad and sandwich choices and kids get a big welcome. Also, lots of stroller room, clean restroom (okay, so that may not sound important now but just wait until you have spent an afternoon with a toddler looking for just the ‘right’ toilet) and jazz music in the background. Continue reading

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Girl with a Pearl Earring meets Snow White

postcard Thursday I visited an old friend that I have never met. You might feel the same way when you stand in front of the Girl with a Pearl Earring (ca.1665) by Johannes Vermeer at the de Young Museum. The thrill of having this exhibit in San Francisco – until June 2, 2013 – is that you can introduce your child to this lovely masterpiece. Continue reading

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